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I've always thought of my 20s as this one big contradiction.
我一直覺得我的二十幾歲是一個巨大的矛盾。
In some things, you find your way, and in others, you're completely lost.
在某些事情上，你找到了方向，在其他事情上，你完全迷失。
Somehow, this era of your life is both the best of it and the worst of it. And just when you think you've cracked the code, the rules change.
不知怎的，你人生的這個階段既是最好的也是最糟的。就在你以為你破解了密碼的時候，規則改變了。
I used to believe that there was one clear path, that if I followed it, things would happen the way everyone said it would. But now I know it's a little more complicated than that.
我曾經相信有一條清晰的道路，如果我遵循它，事情會像每個人說的那樣發生。但現在我知道這比那更複雜。
>> In this phase of our lives, we're constantly being told one thing or another.
在人生的這個階段，我們不斷被告知這件事或那件事。
But if there is one true thing about your 20s, it's this.
但如果關於你的二十幾歲有一件真實的事，那就是這個。
It never goes quite like how you expect it to. Thanks, Hi.
它從來不會完全按照你預期的方式發展。謝謝。嗨。
Where do I start? Earlier this year, I came to the realization that I am approaching the end of my 20s. And aside from trying not to freak out about it,
從哪裡開始呢？今年稍早，我意識到我即將接近二十幾歲的尾聲。除了試著不要為此抓狂之外，
it also got me thinking. Your late 20s are an interesting time.
它也讓我開始思考。你的二十幾歲後期是一個有趣的時期。
One minute you're a functioning adult, answering emails, paying taxes, watching half your friends pick up running while the other half are suddenly engaged. 70k for the whole wedding. The venue,
前一分鐘你是一個有功能的成年人，回覆郵件、繳稅、看著一半的朋友開始跑步，另一半突然訂婚。整個婚禮七萬。場地，
>> let's just say it's a varied experience.
讓我們這麼說吧，這是一個多樣化的經歷。
I guess when I first entered this decade, I had this idea of what I thought my 20s would be like with goals and milestones that I would hit,
我想當我第一次進入這個十年時，我有一個關於我的二十幾歲會是什麼樣子的想法，有我要達成的目標和里程碑，
thinking that I had a lot of time to achieve it all. But now that I'm near the end of it, I realize that there's still a few things that I haven't done
以為我有很多時間來達成這一切。但現在我接近尾聲了，我意識到還有一些事情我還沒做
that I thought I would have by now. So, I want to see if I could change that.
我以為我現在應該已經做了。所以，我想看看我能不能改變這個。
Actually, this whole thing came to be when I realized that last year I spent majority of my time at my desk. No gardening, no home projects, just everything on the
其實，這整件事是當我意識到去年我大部分時間都在我的桌前。沒有園藝、沒有家居項目，所有事情都被
back burner. Basically, I kind of let work take over my life a bit. Granted, it was a crazy year. Two years passed by and I realized that there's still a lot
擱置。基本上，我有點讓工作接管了我的生活。當然，那是瘋狂的一年。兩年過去了，我意識到還有很多
of things that I said I would do that I haven't done yet. And a lot of those things were just the small things that kind of that I enjoyed, you know. So
我說要做但還沒做的事情。其中很多只是我喜歡的小事，你知道的。所以
lately, I've been trying to put more effort into that again. But that's okay.
最近，我一直在努力重新投入。但沒關係。
We're gonna we're going to figure it out.
我們會想辦法的。
We're figuring it out. You know, one of these days I'm going to have to tell you 11 instead of 12.
我們正在想辦法。你知道的，總有一天我得告訴你 11 而不是 12。
>> Yeah, maybe something that'll work. >> Not this time.
>> 是的，也許有用的東西。>> 這次不行。
I feel it bringing up things from my past. But now felt so real to me.
我感覺它帶出了我過去的東西。但現在對我來說感覺如此真實。
I want you to know you're my >> actually it's multi-purpose. Yeah, true.
我想讓你知道你是我的 >> 其實它是多用途的。對，是的。
And how much is it? >> No. Nothing's ever felt so real.
多少錢？>> 不。沒有什麼感覺如此真實。
I guess I've been stuck in this weird cycle. Thinking, planning, then hovering so long I don't even end up seeing it through.
我想我一直困在這個奇怪的循環裡。思考、計畫，然後徘徊太久以至於最後甚至沒有完成。
>> Oh, you start that DIY yet? >> Not yet.
>> 哦，你開始那個 DIY 了嗎？>> 還沒。
>> It's funny. You go the first half of this decade with people telling you that you have so much time, then all of a sudden you're expected to have it all
有趣的是，這個十年的前半段人們告訴你你有很多時間，然後突然之間你被期望要全部搞定
together. But the truth is, no one exactly tells you when to make that switch.
但事實是，沒有人確切告訴你什麼時候該做那個轉換。
We think not knowing what to do is the hard part, but not being clear on our choices is what really holds us back.
我們以為不知道該做什麼是困難的部分，但對我們的選擇不清楚才是真正阻礙我們的。
Often we think we need to know everything before we start to feel prepared and to have all the plans laid out in front of us. But it's actually through doing something that our next
我們常常認為在開始之前需要知道一切才能感到準備好，要把所有計畫擺在面前。但其實是通過做某件事，我們的下一步才會顯現。
steps will be revealed. You can never really be prepared for how fast time moves.
你永遠無法真正準備好時間過得多快。
One day you're 22 and the next you're 28. In dayto-day, nothing seems too different. But when you look back, everything is.
有一天你 22 歲，下一天你 28 歲。在日常中，什麼都看起來沒什麼不同。但當你回顧時，一切都不同了。
I'm trying to make more time to do things that I've always wanted to do, but felt like for some reason I didn't have the time to back then.
我試著騰出更多時間做我一直想做的事，但不知為何覺得以前沒有時間。
I think at one point all I wanted was enough time to watch all the movies and read all the books. But as I move through life, I realized that even if
我想有一度我想要的只是有足夠的時間看完所有電影、讀完所有書。但隨著我的成長，我意識到即使
you do have the time, it doesn't mean you'll actually do it.
你有時間，也不代表你真的會去做。
If we don't intentionally decide on how we want to spend our time, we'll always find something else to fill that time with.
如果我們不刻意決定如何使用我們的時間，我們總會找到別的東西來填滿那個時間。
Maybe I'm just being dramatic. Maybe I've built a bad habit. But either way, I'm done waiting for that time to come.
也許我只是太戲劇化了。也許我養成了壞習慣。但不管怎樣，我不再等那個時刻到來了。
It's happening now. So, I made a list. There's 1 2 3 4 10 things on this list of 10 things to do within the next 4 months, which is the
現在就發生。所以，我列了一個清單。這個清單上有 1 2 3 4 10 件事，在接下來 4 個月內要做的 10 件事，也就是
end of the year, and also when my birthday is, aka the end of my 20s. I had the idea for some of these already, but I also just sort of came up with
年底，也是我生日的時候，也就是我二十幾歲的結束。其中一些我已經有想法了，但有些我只是剛想到
some right now that I think are perfect.
我覺得很完美。
Okay, to me, these are not super crazy, but they are enough to challenge me for the next 4 months given where I'm at right now in my life. They are things
好的，對我來說，這些不是超級瘋狂的，但考慮到我現在人生的位置，它們足以在接下來 4 個月挑戰我。它們是一些
that I've either wanted to do for the last couple of years that I've never really got to, things that I've just want to incorporate more into my life
我過去幾年一直想做但從沒真正做到的事情，一些我只是想更融入我生活的事情
and there's some like I've always wanted to do it but like I didn't know when it was going to happen. Whether or not I can do this in 4 months is the question.
還有一些是我一直想做但不知道什麼時候會發生的。我能不能在 4 個月內做到這些是個問題。
I signed it at the bottom. I Rais Santos hereby state that I will complete this list by the end of my 20s. signed and dated September 2025.
我在底部簽名了。我 Rais Santos 在此聲明我會在我二十幾歲結束前完成這個清單。簽名並註明日期 2025 年 9 月。
That's crazy. That's wild. You call me at night. I thought we were fine. I told you I don't love you, darling. Now I'm right by the phone answering to your calls. I've got a
太瘋狂了。太狂野了。你在晚上打給我。我以為我們很好。我告訴你我不愛你，親愛的。現在我就在電話旁邊接聽你的電話。我有一個
complaint, my darling. I haven't been true to you in so long.
抱怨，親愛的。我已經很久沒有對你誠實了。
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I've always thought of my 20s as this one big contradiction.
我一直覺得我的二十幾歲是一個巨大的矛盾。
In some things, you find your way, and in others, you're completely lost.
在某些事情上，你找到了方向，在其他事情上，你完全迷失。
Somehow, this era of your life is both the best of it and the worst of it. And just when you think you've cracked the code, the rules change.
不知怎的，你人生的這個階段既是最好的也是最糟的。就在你以為你破解了密碼的時候，規則改變了。
I used to believe that there was one clear path, that if I followed it, things would happen the way everyone said it would. But now I know it's a little more complicated than that.
我曾經相信有一條清晰的道路，如果我遵循它，事情會像每個人說的那樣發生。但現在我知道這比那更複雜。
>> In this phase of our lives, we're constantly being told one thing or another.
在人生的這個階段，我們不斷被告知這件事或那件事。
But if there is one true thing about your 20s, it's this.
但如果關於你的二十幾歲有一件真實的事，那就是這個。
It never goes quite like how you expect it to. Thanks, Hi.
它從來不會完全按照你預期的方式發展。謝謝。嗨。
Where do I start? Earlier this year, I came to the realization that I am approaching the end of my 20s. And aside from trying not to freak out about it,
從哪裡開始呢？今年稍早，我意識到我即將接近二十幾歲的尾聲。除了試著不要為此抓狂之外，
it also got me thinking. Your late 20s are an interesting time.
它也讓我開始思考。你的二十幾歲後期是一個有趣的時期。
One minute you're a functioning adult, answering emails, paying taxes, watching half your friends pick up running while the other half are suddenly engaged. 70k for the whole wedding. The venue,
前一分鐘你是一個有功能的成年人，回覆郵件、繳稅、看著一半的朋友開始跑步，另一半突然訂婚。整個婚禮七萬。場地，
>> let's just say it's a varied experience.
讓我們這麼說吧，這是一個多樣化的經歷。
I guess when I first entered this decade, I had this idea of what I thought my 20s would be like with goals and milestones that I would hit,
我想當我第一次進入這個十年時，我有一個關於我的二十幾歲會是什麼樣子的想法，有我要達成的目標和里程碑，
thinking that I had a lot of time to achieve it all. But now that I'm near the end of it, I realize that there's still a few things that I haven't done
以為我有很多時間來達成這一切。但現在我接近尾聲了，我意識到還有一些事情我還沒做
that I thought I would have by now. So, I want to see if I could change that.
我以為我現在應該已經做了。所以，我想看看我能不能改變這個。
Actually, this whole thing came to be when I realized that last year I spent majority of my time at my desk. No gardening, no home projects, just everything on the
其實，這整件事是當我意識到去年我大部分時間都在我的桌前。沒有園藝、沒有家居項目，所有事情都被
back burner. Basically, I kind of let work take over my life a bit. Granted, it was a crazy year. Two years passed by and I realized that there's still a lot
擱置。基本上，我有點讓工作接管了我的生活。當然，那是瘋狂的一年。兩年過去了，我意識到還有很多
of things that I said I would do that I haven't done yet. And a lot of those things were just the small things that kind of that I enjoyed, you know. So
我說要做但還沒做的事情。其中很多只是我喜歡的小事，你知道的。所以
lately, I've been trying to put more effort into that again. But that's okay.
最近，我一直在努力重新投入。但沒關係。
We're gonna we're going to figure it out.
我們會想辦法的。
We're figuring it out. You know, one of these days I'm going to have to tell you 11 instead of 12.
我們正在想辦法。你知道的，總有一天我得告訴你 11 而不是 12。
>> Yeah, maybe something that'll work. >> Not this time.
>> 是的，也許有用的東西。>> 這次不行。
I feel it bringing up things from my past. But now felt so real to me.
我感覺它帶出了我過去的東西。但現在對我來說感覺如此真實。
I want you to know you're my >> actually it's multi-purpose. Yeah, true.
我想讓你知道你是我的 >> 其實它是多用途的。對，是的。
And how much is it? >> No. Nothing's ever felt so real.
多少錢？>> 不。沒有什麼感覺如此真實。
I guess I've been stuck in this weird cycle. Thinking, planning, then hovering so long I don't even end up seeing it through.
我想我一直困在這個奇怪的循環裡。思考、計畫，然後徘徊太久以至於最後甚至沒有完成。
>> Oh, you start that DIY yet? >> Not yet.
>> 哦，你開始那個 DIY 了嗎？>> 還沒。
>> It's funny. You go the first half of this decade with people telling you that you have so much time, then all of a sudden you're expected to have it all
有趣的是，這個十年的前半段人們告訴你你有很多時間，然後突然之間你被期望要全部搞定
together. But the truth is, no one exactly tells you when to make that switch.
但事實是，沒有人確切告訴你什麼時候該做那個轉換。
We think not knowing what to do is the hard part, but not being clear on our choices is what really holds us back.
我們以為不知道該做什麼是困難的部分，但對我們的選擇不清楚才是真正阻礙我們的。
Often we think we need to know everything before we start to feel prepared and to have all the plans laid out in front of us. But it's actually through doing something that our next
我們常常認為在開始之前需要知道一切才能感到準備好，要把所有計畫擺在面前。但其實是通過做某件事，我們的下一步才會顯現。
steps will be revealed. You can never really be prepared for how fast time moves.
你永遠無法真正準備好時間過得多快。
One day you're 22 and the next you're 28. In dayto-day, nothing seems too different. But when you look back, everything is.
有一天你 22 歲，下一天你 28 歲。在日常中，什麼都看起來沒什麼不同。但當你回顧時，一切都不同了。
I'm trying to make more time to do things that I've always wanted to do, but felt like for some reason I didn't have the time to back then.
我試著騰出更多時間做我一直想做的事，但不知為何覺得以前沒有時間。
I think at one point all I wanted was enough time to watch all the movies and read all the books. But as I move through life, I realized that even if
我想有一度我想要的只是有足夠的時間看完所有電影、讀完所有書。但隨著我的成長，我意識到即使
you do have the time, it doesn't mean you'll actually do it.
你有時間，也不代表你真的會去做。
If we don't intentionally decide on how we want to spend our time, we'll always find something else to fill that time with.
如果我們不刻意決定如何使用我們的時間，我們總會找到別的東西來填滿那個時間。
Maybe I'm just being dramatic. Maybe I've built a bad habit. But either way, I'm done waiting for that time to come.
也許我只是太戲劇化了。也許我養成了壞習慣。但不管怎樣，我不再等那個時刻到來了。
It's happening now. So, I made a list. There's 1 2 3 4 10 things on this list of 10 things to do within the next 4 months, which is the
現在就發生。所以，我列了一個清單。這個清單上有 1 2 3 4 10 件事，在接下來 4 個月內要做的 10 件事，也就是
end of the year, and also when my birthday is, aka the end of my 20s. I had the idea for some of these already, but I also just sort of came up with
年底，也是我生日的時候，也就是我二十幾歲的結束。其中一些我已經有想法了，但有些我只是剛想到
some right now that I think are perfect.
我覺得很完美。
Okay, to me, these are not super crazy, but they are enough to challenge me for the next 4 months given where I'm at right now in my life. They are things
好的，對我來說，這些不是超級瘋狂的，但考慮到我現在人生的位置，它們足以在接下來 4 個月挑戰我。它們是一些
that I've either wanted to do for the last couple of years that I've never really got to, things that I've just want to incorporate more into my life
我過去幾年一直想做但從沒真正做到的事情，一些我只是想更融入我生活的事情
and there's some like I've always wanted to do it but like I didn't know when it was going to happen. Whether or not I can do this in 4 months is the question.
還有一些是我一直想做但不知道什麼時候會發生的。我能不能在 4 個月內做到這些是個問題。
I signed it at the bottom. I Rais Santos hereby state that I will complete this list by the end of my 20s. signed and dated September 2025.
我在底部簽名了。我 Rais Santos 在此聲明我會在我二十幾歲結束前完成這個清單。簽名並註明日期 2025 年 9 月。
That's crazy. That's wild. You call me at night. I thought we were fine. I told you I don't love you, darling. Now I'm right by the phone answering to your calls. I've got a
太瘋狂了。太狂野了。你在晚上打給我。我以為我們很好。我告訴你我不愛你，親愛的。現在我就在電話旁邊接聽你的電話。我有一個
complaint, my darling. I haven't been true to you in so long.
抱怨，親愛的。我已經很久沒有對你誠實了。